Q. Question? you see my dad golf club is having this family fun day which my parents are making me go to. But the thing is my gymnastics is on that day and i just cant go to that if i go to the golf . I will have missed 7 weeks (because of my holiday and the gyms holiday because they have another 2 weeks off after this one) and i will have lost lots of flexbility and strength! the thing that i hate them for is that i've been trying so hard and learning so much resently and it makes me want to cry thinking about how long it will take me to re learn the things i've been trying so hard to finally do! I really want to go to gymnastics is there any way or any thing i can say that will make them let me . Also do you think what they're making me do is unfair? (i sure do!) and lastly to make me feel better what is the worst thing your parents have done to you?
and by the way this is NOT the worst thing they've done to me :(
debs i dont want to go out with my family cause i always get joked about when i'm with them and they always seem to pick on my flaws which i hate :(
actually laura i did mention my lack of training on holiday but then i wasn't as bovered because i didn't think i would have to miss it for 7 weeks until today :(
and laura they will compromise my mum has offered me a dress (which i really like) if i go but i've said no at the moment because i can earn the dress in other ways and gymnastics means alot to me right now. I think my mum gets that but my dad doesn't care :(

A. Best Answer: kill them

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Q. Question? I'm a female high school student.
-I live in a 3 bedroom detached house in the north of england in the suburbs
-My dad's in HR and my mum's a librarian
-We have 2 cars - a Polo and a Golf
-We go on holiday once a year, usually to somewhere like Wales or France
-We buy the Guardian newspaper
-I buy my clothes from New Look, Primark and H&M
-I want to be a nurse when I'm older

A. Best Answer: Middle class....

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Q. Question? Me and my partner are moving to Murcia in 3weeks. The job he as is on La Torre golf resort.
We have managed to get a town house on the resort for 1month until we get a feel for the place to find the best place to live.
We have family coming over for the full month to holiday with us.

Will we enjoy it?? Murcia or on La Torre resort?
How far is the closest beach?
Is it easy to get to?
Is the closest beach nice?
Is Torre Pacheco nice
Is they plenty of entertainment outside the resort for the family?

Any other info would be brilliant.x

A. Best Answer: www.torrepacheco.es
to the beach in Los Alcázares (www.losalcazares.es) it is a 15 min drive, to Murcia Town (better take the train from Torre Pacheco station or from Balsicas or take the bus - parking in Murcia town is difficult) a 20 mn drive, same as to Cartagena (roman theater, museum for underwater arqueologie, museum of the navy etc).
Torre Pacheco is basically a rural town with a lot of Moros (Morrocians). Out of own experiances, sorry to say so, beware of them - little money on you, best in the front pockets of pants.
The resort itself is nice, but a bit steril for my taste. Just know it from driving by.
For entertainment (visits) look into www.murciaturistica.es. We got a lot to see here in the region. If you mean night entertainment (bars, clubs, disco): due to the high temperatures in daytime, all places are open until very late. The discos partely close after sunrise. I am not much of a disco goer. I just heard of one in a industrial area of Torre Pacheco, close to the train station.
Staying in the resort a car will be necessary.
If you want to go a bit away from the August heat, go to the Sierra Espuña (close to 1600 m high, just a 40 min drive from TP.
Anyway, the first thing after unpacking and getting something to eat (Mercadona or DIA supermarkets in Torre Pacheco. I don´t know if they have a Lidl or Aldi there, but most probably yes - www.aldi.es, www.lidl.es (Both are discounters with quite good products):
Look for the Turist office. They will give you a lot of information!!! and not only for TP but for the whole region of Murcia. The same thing do in every place you are visiting.
Enjoy your trip to here and take a lot of water with you. You will need it. The long drive from the northern coast thru the flats if both Castillas will be hot, after crossing the Cantabrian Mountains!! And down here in the Campo de Cartagena we will be most probably be close to 35º daytime and nights above 20º
Oh, for the weather: www.aemet.es.
In case you are coming in via Murcia, either down from Madrid or from Alicante on A7, take the A30 from Murcia on in direction Cartagena. Crossing the mountains is a connection in direction San Javier-Aeropuerto. Take this one and you are nearly there. The Golf Resort is indicated on the motorway.
In case you come don from Alicante on the pay highway AP7 (about 8,00 ? high season price) take the connection shortely after the Sucina-exit in direction Murcia. But for the route from the ferry to Torre Pacheco/Golf Resort better look into www.guiarepsol.es
Hope, this is of help too.
Have a good trip!
U.

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Q. Question? Everything I say here has been proven beyond doubt so there is no libel or slander.
The first incident was when Abp Paul Baker worked for a church local to him. He was in charge of church funds. They disappeared. The church sacked him. He then joined Christian Evangelisation International Ministries. It wasnt long before he was nagging parishioners to "lend" him huge sums of money.... £50,000 for example. Most people have to work for five years to earn that much.
He would insist that he needs it to pay his bills and will repay it as soon as he can. Instead he spent it on holidays, cars, boats, a lovely bungalow and expensive meals out. He joined the golf club. He actually earnt more than most of them, but didnt tell them that. Then when it came to paying back the money he would either try to borrow from someone else or simply tell them it is tough luck he cannot pay them back. Then go off on another expensive long holiday. Some years he had five long expensive holidays. He has a terrible reputation in his town, most wont even talk to him or go to his church at all, it got so bad he had to move from the town. Incidentally he also got engaged to marry a younger woman, moved in with her, spent masses of time with her, met her family, became part of the family, planned a wedding and honeymoon with her, got engaged to her in public and filmed the whole engagement onto a recorder for all to see. You may say how lovely that it. But he was already married. For many years he lied to his wife and he messed this woman around too. According to him his life was wretched because he needs to serve God by being in the church and that means he has to stay officially married to a woman he finds boring and unsexy and cold. So his solution was to nag this other woman to wait until he could marry her properly and virtually live there like man and wife in the meantime, while he neglects and hardly ever sees his real wife, who was constantly complaining because he was never at home. This went on for many years until this other woman ended it. Then he pleaded with her to stay in touch because he had prayed to God that his wife would die and they would be together. She said no.
It is obvious this man lies to everyone, cheats, cons, uses, steals. So why do the church keep him on? Please do not say it is about forgiveness or that I have no right to judge. I do. He ruined my life. And he will ruin the lives of others who trust him if he stays. People who are in a position of trust should be looked up to and should be relied upon. When a parishioner goes to a church and talks to their minister they should know that person cares about them. Not that they are trying to work out how to con them into sex or con them out of money. And nobody changes that much. A bad person is always a bad person. It is all very well for the church to forgive him, but if it had been their money and lives he had wrecked they wouldnt. The freemasons are now looking into not allowing this man to call himself a freemason anymore. VERY BAD MEN are looking into doing an hour documentary about him to warn others. He has been in newspapers, magazines and on tv already. So beware.

A. Best Answer: "He ruined my life."

And yet you call yourself a 'relationship expert'.

Perhaps Paul Baker is a bad person, perhaps not (you haven't posted any actual evidence of this).

But your worst enemy lives with you.

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Q. Question? Dipstick showed low oil level (in fact none), Filled to correct level on dipstick and once i had done this the car smoked heavly from the exhaust. It also spluttered but now seems to be running clear, anyone got any ideas or know good site to get help, and its bank holiday weekend ha ha.

A. Best Answer: The Volkswagen Golf uses 4 quarts of oil. Are you sure you used the right kind of oil? There is no reason for it to smoke unless its an older Golf and its burning oil which is why it was low in the first place.

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Q. Question? Rev Dr Leslie Mary Trombly runs this with Abp Paul Baker. they ask strangers to donate money to their church saying they use it to help others. Yet Abp Paul Baker has a very long history of borrowing huge sums of money off of parishioners and locals. He borrowed £8000 from one a few years ago and then wanted her to lend him another £7000. This is a year's wages at least to most people. He then insists he cannot pay it back. Although this does not stop him from having lots of long expensive holidays, buying cars,joining a golf club and buying a boat! In other words he cons people into paying for his luxuries for him.
He is married yet he nags parishioners to have sex with him. He moved in with one and lived with her in secret, not telling the church or his wife, for EIGHT years. This only ended when the woman ended it.
All of this is proved beyond a doubt. Has been featured in reliable papers, mags and on tv.
The church know this and let him carry on so they now irresponsible and unreliable.
This guy is English and lives in England. He is so hated he has had to move to a new area.

A. Best Answer: sounds like he should be in prison. unfortunatly there are many around that abuse their and trust

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Q. Question? This church advertises on the net asking people to donate money to help the needy. I will tell you who the needy are. It is run by Rev Dr Leslie Mary Trombly who has a lovely lifestyle in USA. She goes without nothing. Her hobby is running the church from her wheelchair online. It makes her feel important. Under her we have Abp Paul Baker, an old man now, married with kids and grandkids.
He supposedly sorts out the money and gives it to those who need it etc. But this is what we found out about him, and all of this is proven. You can read an article about it. Sunday People newspaper, UK. Very Bad Men and other tv programmes are thinking of making a programme about this guy.
His last church threw him out because of "money discrepancies". He has borowed huge sums of money from parishioners and others. One lent him £8000 and then he nagged her to lend him another £7000 which she refused. Most people have to work a year to earn this. This guy then insists that he is sorry but he cannot pay it back and pleads poverty. Yet in the meantime he has about 5 holidays a year, long expensive ones, buys cars, bought a boat, joined the golf club, and takes his family out for very expensive evenings. In other words the people who lend him money end up paying for his luxuries and lifestyle. Other churches in his area refused to deal with him because he didnt pay his bills or over charged. Other jobs he had always sacked him.
He is almost bankrupt and owes the bank a great deal. Yet he continues to spend a lot. Usually other peoples money, which they think he will pay back, but he never does.
Although this man is married with kids and grandkids and very old now, he also pesters women at the church for sex !! He told one much younger single woman that he loved her and wanted to marry her. He bought her an engagement ring, got officially engaged to her (forgetting to tell his wife). He also virtually moved in with her, making out to his wife that he had to work very long hours and that is why he was rarely at home. He did this for EIGHT YEARS and it only ended when the girlfriend ended it, it would still be going on now otherwise.
He became so loathed and distrusted where he lived, and his wife knew that she was an outcast in the town, and she was scared that if they stayed he would keep pestering this woman to see him again. So they had to move a long way away.
The church knows all this, yet they are happy to keep him. Happy for parishioners to trust him with their money and their lives. The fact that he uses people and lies to people and robs them doesnt bother them. What does this say about the church?

A. Best Answer: That anyone who doesn't work for the church can go **** themselves.

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Q. Question? Abp Paul Baker has proved himself to be a liar, a cheat, a con man and a sponger. Yet although his boss Rev dr Leslie Mary Trombly knows this she is happy to continue to hire him, saying that we have no right to be annoyed with him, not trust him and not forgive him.
What has he done? He was drummed out of his previous church because of money "disappearing". He has had other churches refusing to deal with him because when they did in the past he would refuse to pay his bills or overcharge. He has borrowed huge amounts of money from parishioners and businesmen, insisting that he needs it desperately, but never pays any of it back, and spends it on cars, a boat, golf club and great holidays!!!
He is married yet he proposed to a woman, got engaged to her, organised a wedding with her and a honeymoon with her and virtually moved in with her for EIGHT YEARS and this only ended because she ended it.
This man is a sociapath with no care for others. He lies to God and uses God. He lies to his wife and uses her as a cover, if he had left her to be with the other woman he could not have continued with his Church work. He lied to this other woman and the many people he "borrowed" money from.
The town he lived in until recently has hounded him out of the town. This man is English and living in England where cheating and stealing are considered disgusting. When it is an Archbishop it is far worse.
By allowing him to stay in this church, with this history, this church is corrupt and cannot be trusted.
Would you trust this man with your money? Would you believe anything he says?

A. Best Answer: I think it is fair to excercise righteous judgement and common sense in this case, and not allow the guy any where near anybodies money but his own (and even that probably belongs to others!!)

In fact it is unfair on him as well, to keep him in the position where he has been tempted and found wanting. It is in effect putting temptation in his path. Ludicrous.

Should we forgive him - yes. Should we then trust him with our money - of course not. And that is Godly advice.

All else is for God to judge, as only He truly knows the heart of all us scumbags.

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Q. Question? Jesus of Nazareth Church, aka Christian Evangelisation International Ministries knows for a fact that this guy has * "borrowed", we have to use that word with humour, vast sums of money from parishioners and businessmen local to him, saying he sorely needs it, then not paying them back. Yet strangely while he borrows this money he finds he is able to buy cars, boats, expensive evenings out, join the golf club and have fantastic expensive holidays.

They also know that although he is married he asks women at the church to have sex with him. He also got engaged to, planned to marry and planned a honey moon with one. he moved in with her for eight years in secret, telling his wife he was working very long hours. this only ended cause the woman ended it, otherwise it would still be going on now and forever!

he has had to move because he was drummed out of the town he lived in.

this guy does not care a jot about people. he just uses them. he is a sociapath. people turn to the church for guidance and comfort, not for a leech to grab them and use them. Rev Dr Leslie Mary Trombly took it upon herself to forgive him. That is easy to do when it wasnt her that he was lying to and unfaithful to and sponging off of and using. She forgets that leopards do not change their spots.
This man is English and living in England where cheating and stealing are considered disgusting. It is far worse when it is a man in the church, especially an Archbishop.
Would you employ this man if you ran a church?

A. Best Answer: LifecoachAnd RelationshipExpert keeps asking the same question. WHY?

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